give thanks

Then…..

Then…..Look for the miracles throughout your day.

CAREGIVER NOTE:

the joy that brings life to his eyes happened again last evening. Two of his great grandchildren came for a visit. The older of the two is intrigued by the “toys” near his lift chair. It was fun to watch the two of them interact and keep everything moving for a while. The baby is six months old and grasped his finger when offered and he was thrilled about that. He talked with her and shared a nursery rhyme and a couple of songs he remembered from his past — we’ve heard them before, but I doubt the baby had. It was a very enjoyable evening and he was “done in” pretty early…. but was willing to hold out for a while longer until his normal bedtime. 

Make it happen. 

CAREGIVER NOTE:

He lit up for joy when one of the boys and wife walked through the door yesterday afternoon for a visit. They were able to go out to dinner and visit for a while longer. He was in good spirits for the rest of the evening. So happy that the effort to make a visit came to fruition. 

He was up late and is up early this morning. Hopefully, in good spirits. I wonder if he remembers our conversation about getting a haircut and his beard trimmed from yesterday. Sometimes those things stick and other times they don’t. It’s still too early for the shop to be open, but he’s dressed and making his bed – he’s ready for the day. 

Hoping your day is a “bright” one.

CAREGIVER NOTE:
At a loss at times on how to deal with the sadness he feels. Knowing that those he wants to talk to the most are no longer here. His realization that he is the last of his generation makes it all the harder for him. He just wants to be with them, talk to them, spend time with them. He is worried about his parents – and where they are. He asked to call them again yesterday and to talk to his youngest brother. Oh, how I wish I could make that happen. We did make some other phone calls, and thankfully, they helped a bit, but the sadness is still so evident.  

The choices you make today…

The choices you make today impact the choices you’ll make tomorrow.  Choose wisely.

CAREGIVER NOTE:

Another flooded bathroom incident. He attempted to clean up the mess before coming out to get help. He did a pretty good job cleaning up the excess overflow from the floor… now to convince him to change his clothing is a whole other issue. 

His dementia is impacting his long term memories and he was asking once again to call deceased members of his family. Oh how I wish I could make that happen and ease his concerns for their well-being. He shares recent “dreams” with me about seeing and talking to a few of them. He has visited with his brothers, but not his parents or sister. I’m beginning to think this conversation will become part of our daily routine as we’ve had similar talks everyday for the 5 days or so.