“If you make it a habit not to blame others, you will feel the growth of the ability to love in your soul, and you will see the growth of goodness in your life.”
— Leo Tolstoy
Take control of your responsibilities and challenges. Make it your choice today; from this point forward – it really does feels good from the inside out. Try it on for size today. Wrap your arms around it. Make it your goal today and for the rest of this month to see the best in yourself and be responsible for your actions. If you make a mistake, take ownership of it. It’s really okay. Reset. Take a breath and start over from there.
Let’s keep it simple. Journal the next two weeks. Notice the changes. Come back and visit this entry….and answer the following:
There’s a change in your stature, what have you personally noticed?
Personal relationships shift – family, friends, and colleagues – are you noticing a change in any of these since you’ve taken a stance? Have you been keeping a journal of any of these?
How does this new responsibility feel?
What have you learned?
Your GREATNESS is growing!
“In the external scheme of things, shining moments are as brief as the twinkling of an eye, yet such twinklings are what eternity is made of — moments when we human beings can say “I love you,” “I’m proud of you,” “I forgive you,” “I’m grateful for you.” That’s what eternity is made of: invisible imperishable good stuff.” Fred Rogers
These are the exquisite moments that exist every day. Hundreds of moments, maybe thousands of moments often overlooked because we’re too busy, hurried, harried or occupied. These are our “teaching” moments with our children. A “loving or sharing” moment with our spouse.
Sharing a Recognition of Greatness with a family member or even a stranger can often make the difference in their day for good or bad. Often these statements only take a mere five to ten seconds of your time and if you really want to get wordy, 30 seconds of your time by adding on values and traits you want to see that person exhibiting or admire in that person. For an example of this, see this blog. Wouldn’t you have loved to be on the receiving end of Howard’s recognition?
Next time you’re out and about, take a few seconds to say thanks for a job well done in a very specific way. Not just “thank you” or “good job.”
Don’t miss an opportunity for a “twinkling” today – share one with your loved ones
“Never forget the 9 most important words in a family:
“I love you.”
You are beautiful.”
“I am sorry”. H Jackson Brown Jr.
These are important keys to creating and solidifying relationships. Our large family is spread across several states and time zones. Our schedules don’t often jive and it’s hard to get together even for a phone call. I treasure those times when we do join for a family dinner in a home or at a restaurant, gather around a phone for a few minutes to “catch up” on the news – or even better with technology being what it is, using Skype® to conference with the kids, the folks, brothers and sisters.
While texting seems to be a great way to get messages back and forth — it seems to lose something. I really do like some “face” time and seeing who I am talking to and seeing how the grand-kids are growing and changing from week to week or month to month. We really do need to visit more frequently — HINT HINT!
And one more thing, I still treasure, is the old fashioned card or letter — although I don’t write many, I still enjoy sending a beautiful card and letter filled with a handwritten sentiment – and I hope the recipient enjoys the same.
“… The future is an empty canvas or a blank sheet of paper, and if you have the courage of your own thought and your own observation, you can make of it what you will. ” Lewis Lapham
Where and what are you going to do with your blank canvas today? Will you fill it with bright colors, pastels? Or muted, earthy tones? Will come back and add layer upon layer as go throughout the day?
You are the artist, the author. It is your choice. This is truly your canvas to fill or leave blank. What will you choose?